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Loving relationships can free us of shame and inhibition, and we need healthy relationship skills to get there. You need support and guidance to start the transformation into the partner, friend and family member you want to be. I am a relationship coach and mediator in the San Francisco Bay Area with a M.A. in Sexuality Studies from San Francisco State University. Contact me about my coaching and mediation packages!


  • "I've attended several of Julianne's workshops. And I want to go to more! Julianne's warmth and intelligence make even challenging and confusing topics feel easy (and exciting!) to navigate. She's really skilled at creating safety in groups and can curtail her presentations to all levels of experience and knowledge. Going into the workshop on Radical Polyamory, I was worried I might be judged for where I am in my process with this topic. The minute the workshop started and Julianne set the tone however, I instantly relaxed and felt like I could really use the workshop for my own purposes and not worry about what anyone else thought I should do or where I should be. Julianne is a space-maker. She creates a comforting and safe space to delve into your fears and desires. And she does it all with an edgy sense of humor. Get as close to you can to this woman! Some of her smarts can't help but rub off on you."
    - Sam, Seattle, WA
  • "Julianne is one of the most non-judgmental, insightful, objective and creative people we know.  She is a gifted film maker, educator, student of life, and relationship coach.  She will always help you to articulate the path that is right for you without judgment or criticism."
    - Marie, Heraldsburg, CA
  • "I attended Julianne's Radical Polyamory workshop. Julianne is a dynamic presenter who knows her stuff. She creates an open, safe, comfortable atmosphere where folks new to poly and those who live it can share their personal stories and their politics. She is well-informed, full of resource and suggestions and she welcomes everyone to participate."
    - Celeste Hirschman, Sex and Relationship Therapist, San Francisco
  • "Just had a terrific conversation with relationship & sexuality coach Julianne Carroll about expectations and feelings I have surrounding biological family and chosen family. WOW. I feel so affirmed and validated! This was a complimentary session I got for attending her presentation at the Open SF conference about chosen family, and I am really glad I took her up on it. Peoples, if you are in need of some guidance along the sometimes-thorny path of relationship (any kind, really), check her out! Thanks, Julianne!"
    - Karin, San Francisco, CA
  • Julianne's coaching sessions are the perfect mix of anecdotes and useful tools. I walk away from each session with more confidence, and I feel empowered to have the dating life I want.
    - Laura, San Francisco, CA
  • "Julianne is such a perfect person to be doing this work; after one session with her, you'll think "Of course this is what she's doing!"  She's a natural, and has unparalleled listening skills.  I feel comfortable telling her things I haven't ever told anyone else - things that expose my vulnerabilities - because she is truly non-judgmental and thoroughly loving.  Plus she's charming with a great sense of humor; I always feel lighter and calmer after a discussion with Julianne.  The world is lucky she is offering her skills, so don't miss out; book your session with her immediately!" 
    - Kathy, Boston, MA!